Do You Also Dream of Winning $Millions$ in the Lotto? Few of us have, so it's lucky you don't need to rely on luck to build a supportive and lasting relationship.
When you’re out with friends, for Saturday lunch at your favourite cafe, do you envy the couples who just always seem to get along so well together and know what each other is thinking and wants? Of course, you can’t ask them how they do it because that would show the world you don’t have the same sort of relationship.
Would it surprise you to know that, most of these ‘together’ couples probably don’t even know why their relationship works. For them, it just seems to have happened ‘by accident’.
Because the chance of this happening by accident is about the same as winning Lotto, it's more likely they're still in the 'Honeymoon' period, or they have already discovered the secret to a lasting, working, relationship.
The good news is that you too can have a ‘together’ relationship with your partner. Like everything worthwhile in life, it just requires the right tools, and practice, to build.
So it's great you've taken the first step in finding those tools!
Consider your relationship right now. Are there things about your partner that annoy you? Do you try to change them ‘for the better’? Does this result in harsh words just before the two of you go to work in the morning?